If I were to pick TWO major events that shaped this period, those would be — transformation from a Newborn to a Baby and a complete and utter sleep deprivation that just keeps getting worse. First one is awesome. Seeing this little creature go from being a noninteractive bag of poo, all the way to […]
Category: Thoughts
On the Meaninglessness of Life
“Space is big. Really big. You just won’t believe how vastly hugely mind-bogglingly big it is. I mean, you may think it’s a long way down the road to the chemist, but that’s just peanuts to space.”. Those are the wise words written by one of the greatest philosophers of the 20th century. Douglas Adams […]
Sorry Santorini, but you suck
I was really trying NOT to write this article. Really. It took me a full year of trying to stay silent and keep it buried inside that memory coffin. But I just can’t any more. I can’t because, it’s not just the fact that I keep seeing people seemingly enjoying spending time on a blazing […]
If I knew it, I wouldn’t do it
This happens to be a recurring theme both in my blog posts and life. The more I think about what I do and write about, the more I realize how much of it is driven by a sheer ignorance. There’s a saying that goes like – Idiot didn’t know it was impossible, so he did […]
Investing in memories
Here’s a thought experiment – imagine that you are offered to choose between two vacations. One would be the vacation of your life; everything you ever dreamed, hoped and wished for would happen, making you 1000% satisfied; but with one trick – once the vacation is done, your memory (and your phone) will be erased, […]
Honesty and Candor
You might find this surprising but there was a time when I used to be extremely paranoid of giving any kind of negative feedback. This, you have to agree, kind of sucks if you are in a position where one of your primary duties IS to do so. Actually scratch that. I wasn’t scared of […]
Lessons learned after 30 days of being a first-time dad
Well, I think the most important thing that happened during these first 30 days is that we survived 🙂 Like, I’m not even joking. It wasn’t easy, though. If you dig deep into Reddit or if you talk to parents who are willing to share their real feelings, most of them will tell you that […]
Lessons learned after 14 days of being a first-time dad
Last week I published “Lessons learned after 7 days of being a first-time dad”, where I outlined how the first 7 days went through. Compared to week #2, that was a breeze. For us, week #2 was when his stomach cramps started kicking in and let me tell you – this is absolutely awful. It’s […]
Lessons learned after 7 days of being a first-time dad
Calendar says it. It’s been a week. I still can’t believe it, but yep, calendar claims so. It’s been 7 days since my newborn son and wife were released from the hospital. I’m sure some would expect that I’d describe these seven days as complete and utter horror. No sleep. No time. No food. Dirty […]
What should I do if I can’t (or don’t want to) afford therapy?
It’s a fact. Some people can’t afford it, whereas some explicitly don’t want to do it. No matter what your reasoning is, one thing is certain – price of ignoring your mental health is horrendous (and yes, I’m writing a separate article on that). I will try outlining everything that I’ve learned through my 7+ […]